Embrace the haters

Having haters simply means you are on track in reaching your goals and dreams. When you encounter a hater try to replace the thought of them with a road sign that says "Detour" or "Yield" but never replace the thought of a hater with the stop sign.

This is because a hater is a reminder from the higher realms to continue your path. Haters possess the ability to see your potential often before anyone else. There are two types of haters you will encounter but both have the same mentality. The first type, I like to call the Inferiority Complex hater. The second type is the Superiority Complex hater. The Inferiority Complex hater consciously feels threaten by others talents, gifts, and abilities and often makes it priority to look for weaknesses. Minimizing others with their bad thoughts, perceptions, and unfounded opinions boost their ego as they lack vision, creativity, and suffer from low self-worth. On the contrary, the Superiority Complex hater hates simply because of an emotional need to feel superior. This hater type unconsciously is threatened by others talents, gifts, and abilities. Ironically, the psychology of both hater types are founded on the same characteristics which is lack of vision, creativity and self-worth. Haters are part of the process to spiritual growth.

It can be a challenge to distinguish between well intentioned friends and haters. To do so, it's important to discern others intentions accurately to identify a friend from a hater. Often, haters come disguised as friends. One way to distinguish between a friend and hater is to examine your social circle. Should you find you are unable to recall instances of support or celebration in return for support shown or the equal give and take is very one sided, you may be dealing with a hater or simply a selfish individual. Have you ever had a friend or associate you supported by attending all their celebratory events such as birthdays, graduations, etc... only to find that nothing not even a smile or nod has been returned to you? Don't get me wrong, when you are truly walking in your own right validation from others is no longer needed. However, it's important to recognize haters to ensure investments in are to those that we can be confident would support us and challenge us at the same time for growth and development. Have you ever told a certain friend good news but always find that this individual never has anything good to say in response? You are met with a negative response or worst a dead awkward silent blank stare! It's important to not stop your movement forward but again, yield and take notice. When you identify your circle, you can prevent giving your positive energies to those who will just leave you discourage with a feeling of emptiness. Share your vision and enthusiasm with those who vibrate at a high frequency.

Many times, friends may hold back on giving you the truth due to fear of hurting your feelings. Needing to hear criticism in a way that gets your attention will propel you into fulfilling your goals. Now because a hater quickly identifies your weaknesses sometimes we can turn this into a positive by quickly correcting a loop hole or negative trait we were unable to see. Either way you still come out the winner! So, change your perspective and embrace the haters. No more bye Felicia. The new phrase is, "Hi Hater"!

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